Seth Phillips boasts eight million followers on Instagram alone, but who is he? The guy is the man behind the account "The Dude With A Sign," and his photos have gone viral because his posters would tell passersby the most obvious but relevant things in the world.
Inspired by this, an account named "The Dudette With A Sign" aims to do the same thing, but the messages are catered more to women because, let's admit it, it may be a man's world, but female power may be stronger.
Drop The Pride, Sis
There's an old notion that men should make the first move when it comes to dating. In the present day, this translates to waiting for guys to shoot a message either through text or social media before sending a text.
However, according to the Washington Post, some men on Tinder prefer that women make the first move. This shows a certain confidence level in women and may also display their go-getter attitude. As such, this sign speaks volumes about girls doubting if they should take the first step.
Set Priorities, Ladies
Some women like people who are financially, mentally, or emotionally stable. A 1991 Deseret article discussed why girls were often misconstrued as going after another person's wealth when, in fact, they simply want stability.
However, there are ladies who are very straightforward and look at the small things about their partners–such as good toilet paper. Perhaps, some women are very particular about their hygiene and want the best quality sanitary products because, hey, queens deserve the best things in life. Modern-
Day Proof Of Affection
While poems and long handwritten letters are old-school sweet means of expressing a person's feelings for someone, memes have also become effective in doing this these days. These photos with few words often resort to wit and sarcasm to say things that we can't utter in a straightforward manner.
According to a blog on Medium, memes generally aren't academic in nature, but they do encapsulate certain ideas in an entertaining matter. As such, many couples bond over searching for quality and hilarious memes for hours.
New Reason To Watch Sport Channel
This doesn't apply to all because many women watch sports games because they find them engaging and entertaining. But for those of us who don't, here is another reason to sit and wait until the game is over: look out for cute athletes.
However, it may surprise our readers to know that a lot of girls do spend a lot of time watching sports. According to SportsProMedia, the 2021 Global Sports Survey found that almost 50 percent of women in the United Kingdom and the United States watch matches in a month.
F-e-b-r-u-a-r-y Is Spelled Weird
Depending on which country a person is from, the second month of the year is generally pronounced as "feb-ra-ry," meaning the letter "u" is silent. As weird as it seems, it has an interesting backstory.
People would think that it came from the Roman god named Februus since other months were also named after other beings. However, February was inspired by what was said to be the purification ritual called Februa and it was where people were washed as part of the tradition.
How To Back Out Of A Night Out
Home buddies would rather have a nice, quiet night at their houses rather than go out with their peers. We know how lazy we get when the temperature drops, which is why many people can relate to this sign.
Introverts, or people who get tired of social interactions, often have a lot of reasons they shouldn't get out. According to VeryWellMind, they usually prefer to know the person first before engaging with them; as such, they don't like small talks and impromptu conversations.
When Being Nice Is Mistaken For Something Else
Unfortunately, many women understand how being kind can be mistaken for something else, and this often ends friendships. Girls are generally agreeable in nature because they have been found to be compassionate and empathic toward the people around them.
But there's science behind this. According to a Nature Human Behaviour study, women exhibit prosocial behaviors more than their counterparts because of their dopamine activities in the brain. Interestingly, girls tend to mistake boys' attraction to them as friendship, so that explains why dating is complicated!
Who Says Ridiculous Things?
It is safe to say that most, if not all, look forward to Fridays and only a few, if not none, want Monday to arrive. This sign certainly sums up what most employees feel during the dreaded start of the workweek!
According to the BBC, one of the reasons getting up from bed on a Monday morning feels like a chore is that we tend to get more shuteye during the two days of rest. Many employees dread starting their workweek simply because they don't like their profession or workplace.
That's Why It Is THRIFTED
Thrift stores are specifically catered to people wishing to score pieces that are functional and yet, more affordable than when bought at boutiques. And while it is obvious that they should cost less than brand-new clothes as the sign states, this type of establishment isn't immune from increasing prices.
According to the Wall Street Journal, inflation is to blame for this. Still, many flock to thrift stores in search of precious gems that could resell for a thousand dollars or more!
Touche
At this point, New Year's resolutions are only created for the sake of having a to-do list to be accomplished within a few weeks, months tops, of a new year. This sign does make sense, what's there to do if a person doesn't have a resolution, right?
According to Wrinkle and Crease, only eight percent managed to follow through with their New Year's resolutions, and these people almost always have a plan. They also vocalize their goals and aspirations in life.
On Computer All Day, Updates Twice A Year
Girls who have gamers boyfriends would know how the guys spend hours on end playing online. But why do men find it hard to update their social media accounts when they are literally in front of their computers all the time?
Moreover, many women become insecure whenever their partners don't post pictures of her or them on social media. However, as studies have shown, couples who have insecurity issues tend to share PDA-packed details or photos online to portray an image of a perfect, loving pair.
Winter Is Coming
It is safe to say that a lot of people can relate to what this dudette stated in the sign. As per a 2013 CBS survey, only one in 10 Americans like winter. City and state out migrations tend to be higher during colder months.
But one way to enjoy this season is to look at dogs and cats in cute sweaters. Plus, it helps to dress up nicely, too, this time and to take advantage of wearing things that one can never do during the sweltering heat.
There's Regular Water And Then There's Premium One
Many people choose flavored drinks over good old, calorie-free water because they feel like water doesn't taste like anything. And as Dudette pointed out, not all water tastes the same because it would depend on the source and a person's biology.
According to Healthline, water gets its flavor from the minerals it possesses. A 2013 study found that calcium, magnesium, bicarbonate, and sulfate mostly affect how the beverage affects taste. Our taste receptor cells detect salty, sweet, sour, bitter, and umami qualities.
Sweater Will Do
When it is cold, people generally want to be warm, and one way to do this is by hugging someone. Then, single individuals tend to get into relationships around this time, which is referred to as the "cuffing season."
According to The Guardian, it was found that as the temperature rises, the temporary unions dissolve. Cuffing season arose after individuals felt the need to socialize less during winter, so loneliness seeps in when they are alone at home, which is why a new buddy is ideal.
Literal Parasite
Mosquitoes are literally parasites that suck blood and may or may not give a person severe diseases. As such, this Dudette's sign stated the obvious that the insects are only using our bodies for their survival.
According to Smithsonian Magazine, there are over 3,500 species of this insect but not all of them feast on human blood. And if by chance a person has been bitten by a mosquito, there's a good chance that it was a female because they need blood first before laying eggs.
Everyone's On Cloud Nine
FOMO, or the fear of missing out, is a term coined in 2004 to describe the feeling of missing out on something exciting that many people are doing and which is seen on social media. Today, Instagram can easily make anyone suffer from this, especially with the influencers displaying their travel trips.
Just like this sign, we also wonder where they get the money to fund all the trips. However, it is worth noting that even people living on a tight budget can afford this by looking for the most affordable accommodation and opting for non-peak seasons.
Pack Light, Please
Most women are guilty of over-packing for a two-day trip, thinking about the possibility of mixing-and-matching clothes while away from home. According to The Vox, the concept of over or underpacking depends entirely on a person's travel experiences.
Unfortunately, the activity of packing also pressures travelers to meet the efficient and effective adventurer persona. Strangely enough, some experts claim that we are more stressed when out of our homes because we are in unfamiliar territory with strangers surrounding us.
One Birthday Party Only
Some people choose to celebrate their birthdays on the exact day while others prefer to extend it for an entire month. This is basically the time when peers and families give a person a special pass. But back in the day, only saints and emperors knew when they were born.
According to The New York Times, it was in the 1800s when affluent families in America started celebrating their kids' birthdays. This tradition eventually found its way to the masses, and even to this day, we mostly do something big on our special days.
That's Common Courtesy
We live in a world where it's simply inexcusable to ignore adorable pets and babies. It's only common courtesy for a decent human being to wave back at an innocent infant. We will never know if the kid's parents are teaching them how to greet other people.
According to BabyCenter, moms and dads can train their children by setting a good example. After all, the little ones will mimic what they see in adults, so a mere hello or hi to other people will help them emulate the behavior.
Adele's Ode To Break-Ups
Best known for her hits "Chasing Pavements," "Hello," and "Send My Love," Adele is a Grammy winner whose successful hits often dealt with the topic of love, specifically heartbreaks. This lady obviously had some valuable advice for love birds: break up just before the album drops to feel the songs more.
Adele's comeback hit, "Easy On Me," was especially painful, as if listeners could feel the hitmaker's experience. It is worth noting that she had gotten through a divorce and then took a hiatus from making music.
Sharing Is Caring
The internet has become an important tool these days that everyone practically uses it. Wireless connection is also a bridge that tries to bring rural and urban digital divide closer, but unfortunately, not everyone has access to it.
The exact year of WiFi invention remains unclear but it is believed that the concept became functional in 1997. According to Purple.ai, committee 802.11 was created during this time, and it was because of this that the IEEE 802.11 standards for wireless local area networks arose.
Even Celebrities Do It
Celebrities who repeat their outfits are often ridiculed because, for some reason, the public thinks they only wear their clothes once and throw them away simply because they lead a glamorous life and are far richer than most average people.
However, this isn't only unsustainable, it can also harm the environment and end up in landfills. According to Cosmopolitan, Meghan Markle, the Duchess of Sussex, has been known to repeat her outfits during royal engagements, and the same goes with Kate Middleton, Duchess of Cambridge.
Why Buy When They Can Ask For It For Free?
Here is a collaboration that we don't normally see. However, Dude and Dudette didn't agree about borrowing and lending clothes. It's common for girlfriends to wear their partner's clothes but it's not only because they didn't have their own pieces.
According to Thrillist, women wearing their partner's clothes such as a hoodie is a sign of affection. It has been an age-old tradition that exchanging wearable belongings or simply giving a significant other one's property has been a part of the dating process for decades.
Men Need It, Too
We hate to break it to people who think that boys who cry or express their emotions are unmanly but men need to be heard, too. Guys who openly talk about how they feel or reveal the truth about their struggles are often perceived as weak.
However, men are humans, too, who deserve to talk about their bad experiences. According to SBTreatment, suppressing emotions can be detrimental to a person's mental health so it is important to encourage boys to seek help, too.
She Only Asked For A Break
It's normal to feel overwhelmed with everything that's happening around the world. Even at work, it is crucial to take a rest when we feel tired–and this isn't just to get momentary relief. According to the Very Well Mind, it is important to take a breather once in a while to handle stress and burnout.
Signs that people need to take a break include eating habits changes, lethargy, mood swings, lack of motivation, sleep disruption, and low quality of work.
Question Of The Century
Gals who have gamer boyfriends would understand how difficult it is to fight for their man's attention when all they do is use their PlayStation, so here is a question that ladies ought to ask their special someone.
According to CNN, there's a reason video games attract more men than women. They stimulate boys' brains more than girls, which explains why we mostly notice many of them getting hooked to the games easily. However, this doesn't always sit well with girlfriends.
Wise Words From Dudette
This, perhaps, is one of the most useful tips that Dudette has offered. Not only did she tell her followers to be responsible, but she was also helping spread the word about staying protected. Although she didn't elaborate, this may make sense to the youth today.
Studies have shown that contraception helps address overpopulation. However, in the United States, the government doesn't promote control, believing it is up to couples to identify the number of kids suitable for their relationship and finances.
It's All About Me
Thinking about oneself almost always has a bad connotation. We live in a world where prioritizing ourselves makes us look selfish. However, there are many advantages to having a "me time" now, and then that will benefit others too.
According to the Clarity Clinic, self-care tells us that we are worthy, we matter and are just as important as other people in our lives. On top of stress relief, experts tell us that "me time" also boosts confidence and helps build better relationships.
Who Understands Daylight Saving Anyway?
Daylight saving is confusing for almost everybody. Many people get frustrated when they have to adjust their clocks every November, which LiveScience explained was a typical reaction because it messes with the body clock.
Research has shown that even though humans aren't really perfect timekeepers, we do have a way of keeping track of time in our heads. This is why some people may have an accurate idea of how much time has passed. However, studies have also shown that daylight saving actually causes a number of accidents.
Fries Is Still Fries
Potatoes are not unhealthy; they are rich in antioxidants, which help in fighting off free radicals, as well as the electrolyte potassium, which aids in heart, nervous system, and muscle functions. Unfortunately, it's an entirely different conversation when it becomes French fries.
French fries have a high amount of trans fat, which decreases good cholesterol and increases the bad kind. But this snack is so irresistible that we just can't stop cold turkey! Anyone who has been in love with this tasty treat would know that the last pieces on the bag are the tastiest!
So That Everyone Could Attend …
There's no doubt that big music stars earn a lot from touring. In 2019, Grammy winner Taylor Swift's "Reputation" tour reportedly earned $266 million while her concerts between 2009 and 2018 raked in $943 million.
This happened because ticket prices are expensive. According to Billboard, not all sales go directly to the stars. The amount is divided into the musician, promoters, production, and other expenses. The price point would be dependent on the fans' ability to pay, venue, demand, and dynamic pricing.
Well, The Accent Makes A Person Relatively More Attractive
While many people immediately notice a person for their appearance, others choose to get to know them first. But then again, there are some who opt to listen intently for accents. Believe it or not, a lot of us think that accents instantly make someone attractive.
According to Glamour, linguistics research showed that how one perceives accents is all about the sutural and social association rather than how they sound. For instance, we may relate to Italians and French as romantic because the countries are notable for being the perfect spot for couples.
This Is How To Work Out
Only a few people think that working out is fun, but it is safe to say that many more see it as a chore. To be fair, getting up and moving have health benefits such as a better mood due to the release of chemicals serotonin and endorphins, weight loss, and stronger muscles and bones.
Unfortunately, there's no exercise in sitting and slouching all day with phones in our hands. Dudette, however, has thought of a brilliant idea to circumvent this: run away from problems because hey, it involves running!
Mind Your Own Business, Dudette
Human beings are naturally curious but at this age, we should know better than to dip our toes into matters that don't concern us at all. But sometimes, people simply fail to recognize that they are meddling because they thought that they were just helping.
This involves offering pieces of unsolicited advice to a distressed friend, which, although coming from a place of good intentions, may make things worse. According to EliteDaily, we may also feel the need to comment on bad things happening with our pals, but it's not constructive at all.
Real Talk Only
Old-fashioned and discriminatory perceptions note that women require money, shoes, clothes, and beauty products all the time. Unfortunately, even to this day, many people think that girls spend their hard-earned dough on these things only.
Well, there's nothing wrong with that because that's their money, but other women choose to be practical. In this post, readers may assume that Dude was asking about what girls want in men but in reality, ladies simply need cash for gas because after all, we have seen price fluctuations for years!
Number One Rule In Finding A Partner
Everyone relies on their great friends for capturing their best angles on camera but why not make this a prerequisite in finding a partner? Truth be told, this digital age seems to have enforced us to take photography 101 classes for that aesthetically pleasing shot.
Dudette was simply telling us what we can't say: a partner who can take great pictures is for keeps–except when they exhibit red flag behaviors, of course. Called Instagram boyfriends, they are basically the person responsible for breathtaking photos of their girlfriends.
Let Them Do It In Peace
Don't we all wish we were kids and trick-or-treating was expected of us? Adults who want to do this Halloween tradition today will probably feel embarrassed to knock on doors and ask for candy. But who says they can't dress up for the occasion? But don't do it in Virginia.
A city in this state is said to implement a rule about teens being slapped with a misdemeanor if they go trick-or-treating. They could be fined between $25 and $100 and could be sentenced to up to six months.
Who Let ‘Candid' Photos Happen?
From the name itself, candid photography involves capturing candid, impromptu, or spontaneous scenes, which means that there's no coaxing or manipulating that happens when it comes to their poses. But these days, influencers have aced posing as if they are in the middle of an act!
According to Elle, this is also called a "plandid," a totally planned concept to stage a candid shot. The magazine suggests using the "fake laugh" pose, where the subject only coughs out a smile from the diaphragm, resulting in a semi-open mouth.
Netflix Recommendation That Will Be Forgotten
There's no stopping streaming platforms from taking over the world. For instance, Netflix had nearly 222 million subscribers in the first quarter of 2022 alone. According to Truelist, nine out of the ten most-watched shows on the platform are produced by the company.
With thousands of shows and movies on the library of these platforms, it could be extremely difficult to keep track of what's good or not. Of course, we can rely on word of mouth and heed our friend's suggestions. Or we can forget about them because we are preoccupied most of the time.
Height Is Might
Just like accents, most women are attracted to tall guys. Studies have already proven that only a few girls prefer men that are shorter than them. There are many factors why this happens but psychologists claim that this was hard-wired from birth due to evolution.
In the concept of evolution, women saw that tall men had high chances of survival and therefore, they could produce offspring that would survive better, too. These days, however, we feel that it would be more about physical appearance.
Mercury Retrograde Stuff Is Confusing
For most mishaps that happen, people tend to blame it on Mercury Retrograde; but what is this all about? This is the phenomenon where Mercury seems to move backward in space, but those who practice astrology think that this is the reason for errors and confusion.
As such, they would advise not making any important plans during this time. As such, experts suggest being extra patient, understanding, and flexible while Mercury is retrograde. This is also a great time to assess the decisions made that could have led to the mishaps.
No More Plants
There's a common misconception that the green industry is dead. In fact, it has been alive more than ever because of the renewed interest in plants. Millennials and the younger generation are particularly fond of bringing greenery into their tiny apartments.
A study covered by The Conversation found that planting had become a coping mechanism for daily problems and inconveniences. Well, plants do have a lot of benefits for human beings, such as improved mood, reduced fatigue, and better focus.
Irony At Its Finest
Companies have looked conscientious when they announced they were using paper straws in lieu of plastic ones. While the effort is there, it does mask the hypocrisy of still using plastic cups, so what use is it to use an environmentally friendly straw with an unsustainable container?
According to the World Wildlife Fund, plastic cups take 450 years to decompose, so practically, it doesn't decay. So for environment conscious individuals, the best way to do this is to bring reusable tumblers and cups.
Undergarments Are Reusable But Wash Them, Please
A lot of women are probably guilty of not washing or infrequently washing their undergarments. Theta may have their own reasons: perhaps they forgot about them during laundry day or refuse to wash them because they require a different kind of handling.
According to Real Simple, experts advised washing bras after the third time they are worn for hygienic and the items' integrity reasons. Wearing undergarments for over 10 hours can accumulate oil and dirt and also lose elasticity and form.
Hey, Stop Offending The Kids
At the park, there are tons of pet owners bringing strollers and carriers, and more studies have found that people are treating their dogs and cats as kids. According to Scientific American, there are low fertility rates, letting humans take over their own lives, specifically deciding whether they prefer to have babies or not.
Some experts think that pet parenting is the descendant of alloparenting, an evolutionary behavior where moms and dads take care of others that aren't directly their offspring.
Here's The Reminder That Women Need
The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission instructs consumers to unplug appliances before leaving the house for safety purposes and to avoid fires or shocks when no one is around to monitor. Then again, experts also advise doing this to save money, too!
That's because electrical devices that are turned off but still plugged in also consume energy. According to Cnet, notorious ones that are guilty of this are gadgets that have lights that are still on when turned off as well as chargers and computers.
The Art Of Sneezing
Whenever someone sneezes, people around them, even strangers, are compelled to say "bless you." According to The New York Times, this stems from the ancient belief that sneezing opens a person's body to bad spirits so to ward them off, friends would say "God bless you."
The truth is, sneezing can be stopped once it starts. We don't sleep when we're knocked out sleeping because the nerve involved in this activity is also resting. Other people sneeze when they pluck their eyebrows.
Well-Meaning Friends Should Take Note
Whenever a close friend confides in their problems, it is only a knee-jerk reaction to give out advice that we feel is best for that situation. This is a well-meaning response but isn't always welcome. In fact, there are times when it could be harmful.
According to The Medium, there are tons of reasons why we shouldn't offer advice. Psychologists noted that one of the hindrances to interpersonal communication is the human being's tendency to judge. Many times, we also don't know the whole story!
Garlic Breath Is Acceptable
Garlic is one of the most used herbs in cooking, and for a good reason! While it provides additional taste, it unfortunately gives us rancid breath. The late Queen Elizabeth II reportedly didn't like to eat anything with garlic, so much so that the royal chef didn't serve any dish with this during banquets.
There are ways to address garlic breath. Chew on fresh mint leaves or eat apples after a garlic-heavy dish. Then, the most obvious move, brush the teeth and tongue, and don't forget to floss.
Never Too Old, Never Too Cool
Wearing costumes is fun and is not limited to any age range. In terms of cosplay, people love to dress up and attend big events like the Comic Convention to meet like-minded fans that share the same interest in movies, games, shows, etc.
According to Psychology Today, cosplaying grew popular in the ‘60s after the release of "Star Trek" and "Batman" movies. Unlike simply wearing a costume, cosplay is about role-playing a specific character, often involving a few lines, when interacting with fans.
But Sunscreen Is Needed
Except for people who go to the beach for a photoshoot, there really is no need to wear makeup in the heat. According to SheFinds, a time at the beach is a great way to let the skin rest from too many beauty products and will therefore avoid clogging the pores.
What we must never forget, however, is sunscreen. This gives our skin the protection it needs against the harmful rays of the sun that can bring more serious diseases in the long run. Plus, sunburn can be painful to deal with.
That's A Firm ‘No'
Some think that they are led on by the people that they have been pursuing, but sometimes, the other party simply can't tell them that they are not interested. This isn't an isolated case because many human beings find it hard to decline or refuse because they can't handle conflicts or confrontations.
According to The Swaddle, people are worried about disappointing or hurting other people, so they resort to making excuses and circling around a certain topic to avoid saying "No."
Rule In Hospitality
We have always been told that customers are always right; even when they're wrong, they are always right. But through time, business owners have learned that pleasing clients all the time at the sacrifice of the brand's integrity and staff is simply inexcusable.
According to Forbes, there are plenty of reasons the customers are sometimes on the erring side. For one, entrepreneurs also need to think about the subjectivity of things, just like a customer complaining about the comfortability of a chair they had already tried in the store.
Celebrate All Wins
The term "humble-bragging" may have a bad connotation that implies a person boasting about their accomplishments in the guise of a humble manner. However, why do people often mistake pride in one's wins as a negative thing?
Small wins, or feats that align with our goals, are worth celebrating no matter how irrelevant they may be. According to LifeHack, it is important to practice appreciation to let us remember our everyday achievements. Sometimes, we fail to see that we achieve little things every day because we only deem big feats worth noticing.